Friendship: co-operative and supportive behaviour between two or more humans. It is a bond which can be hard to break. You always try to support your friends to the best of your ability and in some cases, you may also be influencing their own decisions. This all becomes sub-conscious and even your friends don't notice it as controlling as that's what true friendship is all about.
So one of your friends may be doing something that you may not completely agree with. You stick by their side trying to steer them away from their actions. What you are doing seems completely like parenting. You are very protective of your friends especially in a group scenario. Every attempt you have in trying to change their mind is not working. What you don't realise though is that despite your own opinions, each and every one of us is entitled to make our own decisions. After all, if we make the wrong choice, we need to learn from our mistakes.
It makes you feel bad having to walk away in the end but realistically, your not the one making the final decision for your friend's own actions.
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